Many things happened lately and i came to realise about the guys around me and i happened to came to a conclusion where man are so many types. Guys who are filled with ego, filled with ambition, etc..

All the guys will claim themselves to be a real mature man. But some are purely fake mature man. What do i mean by a fake mature man?

In my opinion, these are how a fake mature man shows:
- Unable to accept criticism
- Unable to take up responsibility fully even when they say they will
- Filled with pride, ego
- Unable to deal with things in the right way.
- Instead of thinking on solving problems, pushing blame to others.
- Thinking that others should follow your own foot steps.

1. Unable to accept criticism.

Everyone make mistakes, no doubt. But its about how you accept other's criticism and then digest and make changes. I'm not saying that i dont make mistakes, i do.. But.. I will accept criticism, think about it then rebut, and not rebut when nothing go in at all. Sometimes, people criticize you is not about winning you. Its about hoping that you can be a better person. Its helping you. Instead you push them away, and build a wall in between. This is really getting nowhere.

2. Unable to take up full responsibility when they are saying they will.

This is like super common in most guys. When things happened, they always say. Dont worry, i am a responsible man. I will deal with it. But how? How to be a responsible man? You have to do it. You have to show it. Not just by saying. Because, saying are just bullshit! Taking responsibility is about you actually think about how you gonna do it, think about it, and then execute it. Saying doesnt show that you are responsible pls..

3. Filled with pride and ego.

I do understand that most guys are filled with pride and ego. I am someone like that too. But TOO MUCH isn't good! Because TOO MUCH, will cause point 1. You are just purely blindfolded by your pride. HENCE, unable to think about anything at all.

4. Unable to deal with things the right way.

When one person is filled with pride and ego, all you think about in your mind is to uphold that "pride" of yours... but eventually whatever that you do will make you lose all your face..

5. Thinking others should follow your footsteps.

Well....its okay if you want others to follow you. But pls at least be reasonable. Not everything is reasonable and eveyrone have to follow. E.g. you ask me to kill people.. should i follow? Come on.. Dont joke pls..


I tihnk its time where guys really learn how to put down their bloody pride and learn how to love the lady beside you. Because there are many things that no mater what happened, a guy will NEVER get to feel about it..



Lots of love, Nanako